One week into 2023 and here we are eight days in deep.
The year just started and it seems like an entire year
already passed by. Why you may ask?
I experienced a week full of work, a wake, a funeral, and a
death all in a week’s time.
And as we enter into the second week, I just think about all
the good times that I have experienced before this moment that just seemed to
add a bit of weight that I did not expect to have to carry into this new year,
although no one knows the day nor the hour.
As I step into this brand-new week, I think about all the blessings
that seem minor which we often overlook. It is hard to not acknowledge the gift of
oxygen that God breathes into us when we watch a person in a hospital bed with
tubes down his/her throat because they cannot breathe on their own. The ability to breathe on your own is something to not take for granted.
I think about people who get sick from the effects of a stroke that might cause them to
be unable to walk, talk or to even use the bathroom on their own. How often do we thank God for the gift of having a
voice that we can use to sing, speak up for ourselves, to talk about things
that are important to us or to just simply be in our right minds?
The older I get, the more I realize how short life really
is and how blessed I am to see another day and to be surrounded by loved ones. This is the year to tell the people you care about that you love them. Do
not ever forsake those moments of care because you never know the day or the
hour that someone’s last breath may be. Love your family. Love yourself. Pray and
bless the people that you care about and share the joys of life the way that
you would want to receive love from others.
Life is short. Tomorrow is not promised or guaranteed. The
next moment might be your Last. Live in the moment and appreciate it. May you be blessed today and
always. I dedicate my song "Enjoy Life" to you as I make my mantra for each day of 2023: blessed to see another day; because I truthfully am. https://youtu.be/alV2ULnr9z8
Enjoy
life and experience it while you still have time.
We always did
our Christmas family reunion in high fashion. It is like walking into the Academy
Awards in your best dress. Some have the most beautiful of red dresses draped
over their bodies. The men all wearing suits or their cute ugly sweaters. Santa
Claus always finds his way here in his big red suit and bag filled with
promises and toys to place under the huge pine tree that greets you when you
walk in. The walkway is sometimes a carpet of fresh, white snow, and it is usually
the most extravagant of parade ways. The hype is so high, it is a celebration
from the moment of entry.
I haven’t seen some of the
faces of my family members since last year at
this time. We converge with a kiss
on the cheek and the request to remove your shoes and to walk with just your
socks on your feet over the wooden floors. I think it is fun because when you get
into the danceable moments sponsored by my curated Spotify playlists, you can
sing along to the Christmas carols, dip, and slide across the floors with a
smile bigger than Carlton’s on the Fresh Prince of Bel Air.
I mask my winter blues like I
always do when I see them. It is like a glow of stardust washes my troubles
away and brings me sparks of joy. Seeing my family member’s eyes bring a glow
over the verge of tears that I’d been facing. The year can sometimes push me to the brink of
despair but for this family gathering, I feel like a poem of bubbling brooks
and flowers blooming.
And as they walk in the door,
the aroma of something savory is wafting from the kitchen. Every burner and
rack in the oven is occupied with a food item on its way to being ready to eat.
The counters filled with spices, desserts being decorated, and foods still being
prepped for cooking.
We cook like this is the last
supper with more food than you would probably eat in the 525,600 minutes that measure
the year. There is so much deliciousness spread out over the table that your
stomach gets filled just by looking at it. My mother put her foot into each and
every bit of the meal that is about to be shared. The turkey timer has popped
and now I can add my corn souffle into the oven so that it can be ready for the
dinner we are about to serve.
I added my two senses into cooking
as well and turn my kitchen into a canvas and the ingredients that get added
are like my paint. Art is on my mind and the ideas I sketch with the charcoal
pencils of my fingertips. The food we eat, a picture-perfect masterpiece like
those in MOMA, and all who are exposed to it are getting a piece of my heart.
The dinner call is sounded,
like a chapel bell of a 16th-century church and the whole family approaches the
table. We gather and we pray over the meal:
“Father God, thank you for the
day that you made and for the food that we eat and for the hands that prepared it
and for the family that gathered, for those who wanted to come but didn’t find
the opportunity, and for those who have become ancestors and rest in your
peaceful arms. That you might continue to bless us and to keep us and to protect
us with your grace and with your love. You are mighty and everlasting and we
love you and bless you. In the name of Jesus. Amen.”
It is cute to hear the little
ones who can barely talk say, “Bonne Appetit,” but we all do it in our little
celebration. Actually, I make sure to make them say it so that they can have
knowledge of some of the words from our Haitian culture. Those words are part
of it. Some of the foods and drinks found on the table are as well like the Kremas
which is like eggnog with rum in it or the Griot which is pork chunks that are
one of the many meat items on the table and diri a djondjon which is black rice
with dried mushrooms.
It is more than just the
eating that is involved. The stories we share of tradition and exoticism always
pique my interest. When you think about all the experiences you face in a year’s
time, it is no secret that there is so much to talk about if the right person
to talk to sits at your gate. We sip some of the best Apple Cider you can find
and chat. Maybe a sibling or cousin is the family that becomes your listening
board, or maybe it is a friend who is like family, who intently listens to the ranting
of it all without judgment or interruption. This is what makes the conversations
interesting. There is always something new being told, something different
being shared that you have yet to hear and that you are newly learning for the
first time. The laughter is like a weight being lifted off because it surely
makes you feel better.
We eat and chat and then we play
our annual Taboo game. It is always such a fun experience trying to get our
team to guess the words that we are attempting to animate so that we can win
the game. I think I laugh the most during these times because it is so much fun
just getting lost in these moments that never seem to get old. While we play, everyone is experimenting with all
the different desserts that are on the table; cakes, cookies, pies, ice cream,
jello, and candy. These are the yummy moments that are passed until we start to
distribute all the different gifts that are under the tree.
Everyone in the place is
unwrapping gifts in excitement over what someone thought was a good gift for
them. I’ll never forget the time when my next-door neighbor put a Michael
Jackson jacket in a box for me and gave it to me. I wonder if that was one of
the reasons that I became a performing artist. That was one of my favorites. The
other most memorable was an album of Miles Davis recordings, and I love Miles
Davis. What a beautiful gift to receive from a kid at that. Seems like Auntie’s
baby knows me better than I thought; made me so happy.
The night ends with everyone
packing a big foil tray filled with food to take home. Everyone scatters out
the door back onto the carpet full of snow and make their exit back to their
regularly scheduled programs. It is sad to see them all go and even sadder to
know of all the cleaning that needs to be done to bring the art of Christmas
back to a blank canvas.
I think sometimes I count five
hours of washing dishes, cleaning pots, and putting glasses and other things
back into the china for safe keeping until next year, same time, same
celebration. But to think of the reason for continuing on in this tradition for
as long as we have, a smile is ignited.
We continue on. The numbers
might decrease due to heaven calling some to its gates but it is always a
welcome celebration that will always make Christmas one of my favorite times of
the year.
And now that the year is
coming to a close, I am thankful for all these traditions and for all the good
times and bad times, and for being blessed to see this moment of time. I find
peace in it knowing that I made it through. God has been so good and it is not
a secret. May your 2023 be the most
lovely, prosperous, and powerful year that you have ever seen. I offer to you "Peace on Earth: https://youtu.be/ctlbmq9Rit8
Good tidings to
you and yours and hope to see you in the new year.
Currents of emotion broadened
my palette the minute the time square ball reached to the top of 2021.
You can never be too sure if
destiny will allow you to collide with a future date because tomorrow is not
promised. Looking back over 2020 has given me reason to pay attention to that
truth. To be experiencing 2021 firsthand is truly a blessing.
If I was in need of a ray of
light to burst in me hope, it was amplifying my voice to sing “Auld Lang Syne”
that night, as I cheered to the moving image of confetti and kissing couples
celebrating at that Rocking New Year’s party rolling across my television
screen.
I knew that I would be obliged
to find my cadence for this new set of 365. To know of the life altering events
that wreaked havoc over the stretch of the past year, embracing the
uncertainties of the new one still fresh with the grizzly wounds of
circumstance, makes me know that I need to continue to hold on my faith in
God’s miraculous provision over my life.
If I made any resolution at
all, it is devoting my life to muddling along with every spurt of energy that
it takes to tackle each moment. No need to mutter under my breath about how
much I hate wearing the mask on my face or being unable to indulge in my
routinized lifestyle of being out and about. I admit that I am struggling with
the swift currents of these new ways of life. I am craving for the moments when
I can get all dapper and polished again to thrust back into the way things used
to be when the quarantine and the pandemic weren’t a part of our everyday
vocabulary and my world was stuffed with activities. But until then, all I can
do is express my appreciation for the mere fact that I am still here in the
land of the living.
I’m still muddling along. 2020
was not all lost. I teamed up with the cheery and loquacious bassist, John
Mueller, who helped to stitch me back together like patchwork with his happy
talk and musical ideas that caused positive thoughts to ferment in my brain. We
may have been under lock and key in our pandemic prison cells, but the time
spent became valuable hours lumped together to come up with a cohesive set of
songs that later became our collaborative album, The Stephanie Jeannot & John
Mueller Project.
I also found time to dig into books that I had been
dying to read and also ones meant to leverage my
strengths of honing my crafts and enlarging my
territory; not to mention the
binge watching of the
many television shows that strew across my screen
watching
me most of the time.
If it was never as evident
before, 2020 cultivated an image that God is bigger than all our problems and
that even in despairing circumstances, he still provides reassurance that is
far beyond my comprehension. If 2020 is significant to perfect vision, it gave
me the clarity to see what is important in 2021.
Appreciation is the most
important thing. Sharing love is not something you have to bend over backwards
to do. Not every tremor that is hurled into your life by a foolish skeptic, is
a reason to spark another fight. If you have a dull longing to do something,
make the strategic decision to do it or you might one day be riddled with
regret, especially since tomorrow is not guaranteed. Appreciate God’s
masterpieces of good moments and don’t let those times slip you by without acknowledging
them. Love your family, friends and loved ones with heart and mind because they
can be here today and gone tomorrow. And finally, keep hold to the love of God
because from crisis to crisis, he makes it easier to deal with it all.
The Christmas season is just about over, ending tomorrow with Three Kings Day or the 12th day of Christmas as the carolers would sing.
Thank you each and every one of you for checking out my page and liking or taking time to support me as an artist. I dedicate the following song to you all. "I appreciate" written & produced by Stephanie Jeannot
